How to use a vibrator for Intense Orgasms

Choosing The Right Vibrator For You

Before learning how to use a vibrator, you want to choose the one, and there are a couple of vital factors to take into consideration:

Power – The most important factor when selecting a vibrator for yourself is making sure it’s powerful enough. If you currently struggle to orgasm either during sex or masturbation and require a lot of intense stimulation to get yourself over the edge, then mostly likely you’ll need a more powerful vibrator.

This means that you’ll need to avoid the cheap options which often don’t deliver much stimulation and stick with mid to high-end vibrators that include the likes of Lelo, WeVibe, the Hitachi Magic Wand, Sybian and well made “rabbit” style vibrators.

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Modes & Settings – Another major issue to consider before splashing the cash on a brand new vibe is what modes or settings it has. With many vibrators, you can adjust the intensity of the vibration. This is awesome as it means you can customize it to get exactly the type of stimulation you want.

On some vibrators, you can also set it to deliver cycles of intensity. This means that the vibrator will automatically change how intense the vibrations are so that you feel pulses or waves of vibration repeatedly building and receding instead of a constant level of intensity.

Most women find this to be a lot more pleasurable than the same continuous power that less well-made vibrators give. In fact, one of the biggest problems with most low-end vibrators is that if the intensity is not right, there is no way to adjust it. So it can end up being too weak or too powerful, and there is nothing you can do to adjust it.

Shape – For many women, the shape of their vibrator is not very important when using it. This is especially true for those of you who are only interested in clitoral stimulation and using your vibrator on the outside of your vagina. If you want penetration also, then obviously the shape of your vibrator is important too.

Thankfully, most stores stock a large variety of shapes and sizes, from vibrators that look like small capsules (bullets) to penis shaped vibrators to smoother forms with bumps and curves in all the right places, so you’ll always be able to find the right shape for your needs.

Noise – The last thing to touch on when choosing a vibrator is noise. If you share a house with others, you will naturally want to be discreet. A noisy, loud vibrator isn’t going to help you achieve this! My advice is to avoid the cheaper, less well-made vibrators is you want a quiet one.

Prepping For Maximum Pleasure

Once you’ve got a good vibrator, there are a few things you can do before getting down to business to ensure you enjoy maximum orgasmic pleasure

The first and most important thing is understanding what turns you on and makes you horny. This could involve things like:

Having a long, hot bath beforehand.
Reading your favorite erotica.
Setting the mood in your room with the right music, scents, and lighting
Performing some foreplay on yourself. These masturbation tips should help.
Watching porn if that’s your thing.
Having a glass of wine.

Ultimately, you need to do what works for you. So if there is something not mentioned here, but it gets you horny-as-hell, then do that instead. You can find more great ideas to make yourself horny in this guide as well as tips to increase your sex drive in this article.

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The other important strategy for achieving maximum pleasure is knowing your body intimately so that you understand the exact buttons you need to press to bring you over the edge into an ocean of orgasmic bliss. If you currently struggle with reaching orgasm and climaxing but want to learn how to make it super simple, then check out my mind-blowing and in-depth guide on making yourself orgasm here.